All things in the scriptures were written for us . . . but not all things in the scripture were written to us.
Jeremiah 17:9 says "The human mind is more deceitful than anything else.
It is incurably bad. Who can understand it?".
Many teachers have convinced people who are in Christ that this is true of them. It is sad to see.
Jesus IS the cure. Jesus came to remove our stony heart and give us a heart of flesh. Those who are in Christ are NEW creations, the old is passed away and all things are new. Those that are in Christ have the Spirit dwelling in their hearts.
Listen to your heart. Follow your heart, for this is the dwelling place of the very God.